Every Friday, the Old Dean would send “his kids” an e-mail. They were simple musings to some young professionals on staff that always made me think twice about how and why I was doing what I was doing. I’ll never forget his sign off of “time to tap the next keg” as it was a perfect reminder that it was time to stop working and start enjoying the weekend. But when he left UBC, so did the e-mails. The “kids” at his University down south are now the new beneficiaries of his profound rhetoric.
This week, however, the Old Dean stopped in to say hello! And man was that an incredible surprise!
Over lunch, in a crowded boardroom, his kids told him of the changes that took place since he left a year ago. He shared some reflections on his new American stomping grounds and about where he sees student affairs as a profession going in the future. His witty remarks made us both laugh and think. One of his points stuck with me for the rest of the week though. He said:
“We are privileged when young people invite us into their lives.”
We talk a lot about “doing something meaningful” or “making a difference.” We measure it through bums in seats and grade point averages (among other things). But until someone younger than us taps us on the shoulder and says “hey – can I ask you something?” – we’re just working. (You know us stubborn millennials wouldn’t ask just anyone, right?) The perks of the long hours, mundane meetings, and multiple “you feel.. because..” statements don’t kick in until you make that connection.
It’s at that point you realize your position has become more than a role. Its become a privilege.
To end the week, remind your staff why its a privilege to work where you do. And if it’s not – time to make it one.
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2 comments
Natalie Murrray says:
March 30, 2010 at 1:26 am (UTC 1)
It’s been a while since I read your blog! I’m on a longish train ride to visit a university in Scotland. Your words really hit home and set the tone of the day for me. I don’t get to spend as much time with students as I used to and really enjoy every opportunity to be invited into their lives. Thanks for sharing.
Matt Corker says:
March 30, 2010 at 10:36 am (UTC 1)
Glad you are still safe and smiling Nat! Keep me posted on where life takes you!